sometimes… things go wrong…

MMP Mithril in Middle-Earth The Prancing Pony sometimes… things go wrong…

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  • #938
    Gildor
    MMP Elder

    Hello there gentlemen,

    I prefered to create a new topic for this matter rather than posting on the Poney… As you all know I am more than absent lately, I am simply not… around at all…

    I just wanted to share it with you all gentlemen, my life at the moment, and since last december is at a turn… I’m getting separated from my wife… after 15 years together and three children…

    the situation is very painful for me, and most of all because she also refuses the situation completly, and has grown a violent behavior (psychological and physical ) which forced me to leave my home… my belongings… (including all my figurines) and most of all… my children …

    I won’t enter into details, suffice it to say that things won’t get back to normal.. I had to run, to avoid my children being psychologically hurt by her behavior towards me. I can see them from time to time, and I live in a small appartment since January 7th, all alone, without any of my things, with a simple wifi access…

    I am assisted by an attorney, and I’m waiting for the “procedure” to go forth and eventually I’ll be able to go back and claim my home and my children but in the meantime, i am facing hard times and depression too and handled by a psychiatrist too… I am actually off work too as I can’t handle the situation very well…

    In a short moment of “lucidity” and in fear she might throw, melt, destroy all of my collection…as her violence reached no limit at a moment, in front of our children in tears… I managed to salvage my personal computer, and also all the rarest figurines in my collection (except the warbands) but last time I checked my home they were still there so I have hope…

    I hope you’ll understand that i try to go forward… and keep hope for better days… and I miss you all…

    Regards…

    #37627
    Gildor
    MMP Elder

    Hello there gentlemen,

    I prefered to create a new topic for this matter rather than posting on the Poney… As you all know I am more than absent lately, I am simply not… around at all…

    I just wanted to share it with you all gentlemen, my life at the moment, and since last december is at a turn… I’m getting separated from my wife… after 15 years together and three children…

    the situation is very painful for me, and most of all because she also refuses the situation completly, and has grown a violent behavior (psychological and physical ) which forced me to leave my home… my belongings… (including all my figurines) and most of all… my children …

    I won’t enter into details, suffice it to say that things won’t get back to normal.. I had to run, to avoid my children being psychologically hurt by her behavior towards me. I can see them from time to time, and I live in a small appartment since January 7th, all alone, without any of my things, with a simple wifi access…

    I am assisted by an attorney, and I’m waiting for the “procedure” to go forth and eventually I’ll be able to go back and claim my home and my children but in the meantime, i am facing hard times and depression too and handled by a psychiatrist too… I am actually off work too as I can’t handle the situation very well…

    In a short moment of “lucidity” and in fear she might throw, melt, destroy all of my collection…as her violence reached no limit at a moment, in front of our children in tears… I managed to salvage my personal computer, and also all the rarest figurines in my collection (except the warbands) but last time I checked my home they were still there so I have hope…

    I hope you’ll understand that i try to go forward… and keep hope for better days… and I miss you all…

    Regards…

    #37628
    ddaines
    Participant

    Thoughts are with you Gildor and of course for your children, always the unwitting bystanders in such situations. Hopefully things will resolve themselves for you, and for the best.

    In the meantime do what you must do to protect you and your own.

    Best regards,

    David

    #37629
    hsf62
    Participant

    I wish you all the best Master Gildor! Head up and never give up!!!

    #37630
    Thingol
    Participant

    What a sad and painful story dear Gildor…. I hope you will have enough strenght and luck to reclaim your kids and your belongings… especially figures…. those miniatures will one day become legacy for your kids… you need to save all beloved memories so your kids will can appreciate your love and devotion… Best regards from me and my family Gildor…

    #37632
    Theobald
    Participant

    Well, Christophe … what can I say? … your information about your present situation left me very much touched and troubled.
    I think David is right suggesting that first you have to take care to find a base for your feet again. – I wish you each and every success coping with this situation. rhhû°Oooummm !!!!!!!!

    #37634
    mindx2
    Participant

    It pains me to hear of your troubles Christophe. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. Regain your strength as your children will need you going forward.

    #37635
    imisel
    Participant

    I’m very sorry to read this… A divorce, more times than necessary, is a painful process, and in your case, it seems one of the worst.

    I hope that things can change and all becomes better in future, for you and your family.

    #37637
    Milo
    Participant

    Que dire… Je suis très peiné par ces tristes nouvelles. :(
    Je te souhaite à toi et tes enfants de retrouver la paix et de reprendre bon pied du mieux que possible.
    Si cela peut aider, n’hésite pas à venir à la maison dans mon trou de hobbit. La porte te sera toujours grande ouverte.

    #37638
    cameosis
    Participant

    fuck, sending positive thoughts your way … my former boss is in a situation not unlike yours.
    concentrate on your wellbeing and that of your children, those are the things that you can influence. all the best.

    #37639
    Gerold
    Participant

    It makes me sad to read this. But sometimes in hard times one can discover the real powers you have, so i hope you will find the strength to struggle this through and bring better times for you and your children. We’re all with you.

    #37640
    Maenas
    Participant

    I am also passing through a separation process after 21 years of sharing live. All I can say is that better times will come, for sure.

    It helps me to look up on the sky and see the sun rise and fall as usual, also watching plants develop… as it “minimizes” my problems.

    All the best, Christophe, hugs from Barcelona.

    #37641
    Mornedhel
    Participant

    Bon courage à toi et surtout tes enfants … les biens matériels sont peu pour l’amour de ses enfants

    #37642
    twrich
    Participant

    Very sad news, Gildor. But you must protect your children and yourself as best as possible. I remember you saying years ago that your wife threw out some of your Mithrils. That is not rational behavior. Well, sadly this may be best for the children and you in the end, as painful as it is. Please continue to stay in touch with us. Many of us care about you far beyond our common Mithril interest.

    #37644
    Gildor
    MMP Elder

    I am… I am trying to keep alive some of my “raisons d’etre” … Mithril is one of them, my children, another… of course.

    I will have to move soon again as my parents in law decided that I should move out of this place they sheltered me… as they learned of the “factual” procedure … money problems will add up, as well as not having a home at all… I don’t know how many days I have before being forced to leave for a very little appartment as I can’t afford to pay both for my house (where I can’t live…nor see my children…) and a “decent” appartment at the same time :/ My wife has no income at all, I pay for EVERYTHING even from afar :(

    well…. lets try to focus on some more joyous things, I read there is a new MX release? is there a “special” (small batch) version of it? I am sorry I did not follow all discussions about this boat :(

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